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Sometimes, how bitter an ex is, because you broke up with them, will tell you how much the relationship meant to them. Sadly if the ex had put the equivalent amount of anger they have now that it's over, into the relationship, it will still be alive.
Lesson is, don't make anyone you are dating feel like the relationship is nothing to you, when in the real sense it means the whole world to you.
This is why some people are so bitter when they see their exes in a new relationship because the one they left them for is, to say the least, worse. They then begin to beef the ex, calling names, apportioning blames, defacing, casting, abusing, accusing, and for better punch they throw in a pinch of lies here and there to justify why it was not worth it.
Lesson is, don't make anyone you are dating feel like the relationship is nothing to you, when in the real sense it means the whole world to you.
This is why some people are so bitter when they see their exes in a new relationship because the one they left them for is, to say the least, worse. They then begin to beef the ex, calling names, apportioning blames, defacing, casting, abusing, accusing, and for better punch they throw in a pinch of lies here and there to justify why it was not worth it.
Guess what? Underneath all that beef talk, is that I-wish-it-never-ended feeling. But instead of learn from the mistakes, you are justifying yourself and making the ex look bad.
Work on yourself, NOW that you are in between relationships or with on leg in a new relationship and the other in one that should be history.
Come to think of it, You are not entirely, not to blame. Trust me, You were also to blame. Because, if we asked for the exex side of the story, you may want to get an injunction stop the ex from repeating why you broke up.
A babe kept telling everyone how bad her ex was. He is not good in bed. He is stingy. He is not romantic. Forgets her birthday. Never apologises.... blah blah blah... then one day, someone got the ex to open up. She was too dirty. Her "plumbing" system stinks to high heavens. And that was besides the fact that she was too wide and too deep. She bed wets. Leaking plumbing. She is a dream killer.... when the gist got to her, she went berserk. because, it was all true, and she thought those were things he ought not to have said to anyone. Of course he ought not to. But who decides the ones you "ought" not to?
Best thing is to let sleeping dogs lie. Your going on and on about how bad the relationship was to you, will only make any wise person look beyond what you are saying and how you are saying it, to conclude your ex is better off without you.
Come to think of it, You are not entirely, not to blame. Trust me, You were also to blame. Because, if we asked for the exex side of the story, you may want to get an injunction stop the ex from repeating why you broke up.
A babe kept telling everyone how bad her ex was. He is not good in bed. He is stingy. He is not romantic. Forgets her birthday. Never apologises.... blah blah blah... then one day, someone got the ex to open up. She was too dirty. Her "plumbing" system stinks to high heavens. And that was besides the fact that she was too wide and too deep. She bed wets. Leaking plumbing. She is a dream killer.... when the gist got to her, she went berserk. because, it was all true, and she thought those were things he ought not to have said to anyone. Of course he ought not to. But who decides the ones you "ought" not to?
Best thing is to let sleeping dogs lie. Your going on and on about how bad the relationship was to you, will only make any wise person look beyond what you are saying and how you are saying it, to conclude your ex is better off without you.
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